New lens, old habits.

Left my strange husband...it is not easy now. i am home at Bikfalva, starting to get in touch with my friends...
I guess, i will write some lenses, time goes by , in the meantime i will figure out what to do.
 Barefoot Books knights
Barefoot books, fairy tales

i love Barefoot Books, great design, veru educative for children, i believe in these books, but their affiliate system sucks, i left them...rather they left me, as they ask for payment in order to promote their books, crazy, are not?

Superstitions...old wives tales

nothing to do with my life now, but is funny.
Old wives tales

a Hungarian wife with a Scottish husband: How to make ice cream - with a ball.

A Hungarian wife with a Scottish husband:
How to make ice cream - with a ball.
http://www.squidoo.com/ice-cream-ball-maker-information

What is the connection between the happy marriage and recipes.

First you would think, happy marriage will turn you to recipes, for the sake of the darling husband.
In my case, unhappy marriage did push me to the recipes, probably as a compensation. Anyway, here is my Hungarian Paprikash recipe.
And if i started Hungarian recipes, look at the goulash and at the Hungarian soups...


Hungarian soups
Hungarian paprikash,
hungarian goulash gulyas

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My husband is still having a lot of online girlfriends. He is writing them, anytime i am not around, or in the kitchen or in the bed. I see the history on the computer and i can see that he is opening a lot of letters and sending just the same. And once when i did write letter to my friend Ileana, just popped up the messenger and a chinese lady started a strange conversation, telling to my husband that she is expecting him...
I am very unhappy now, i have to ask about the lady...

What is wrong with my husband?

Why is anybody would shout and yell instead to tell normally, whatever is bothering him? and why he do not want to hear the answer, whatever is the question, because all the yelling are starting somehow like "Why the hell...?
Anyway, this behaviour made me to turn to the Squidoo, making a lens about aspic. No connection? maybe but makes me feel better. This is the cooling factor:
http://www.squidoo.com/everything-in-aspic

Well, i forgot to tell, i am "just married" at 60 year age, online dated first, and after a short meeting in Bucharest i just got married...I came in Scotland (beautiful Scotland) and after few  days of marriage started to feel awkward... my husband had a very active online dating life, and i just got to learn about this, day after day.
In 3 weeks i found 4 marriage certificates, 1 death certificate, 1 divorce certificate...and he told me that when he met me, he was widow, never remarried...
Now i started to feel that i am in trouble. Should i make a big scene? what would be the man's reaction? I am in his house and no where to go if things get out of control...i already know that he does not take well if i have a different opinion from his.
He is working every day, i am keeping the house, cooking. But he does not stand what i am cooking, took him a week to tell me that he eats only scottish food, and not surprises...just as programed, every monday the monday's food, tuesday the tuesday's...it is strange, i  am even more worried...

How did survive my quails the Great Snow and Freezing Cold Attack in Scotland?

I started to grow quails for their eggs, with all the health improvements what they supposed to cause. Well, they did work well, until i did move in Scotland and i had to keep them in natural conditions (?) in cage, obviously, but outside, hoping that the scottish winter will not make too much harm to the delicate birds.
Well, the experiment just amazed me, how they did live happily, after the -7 C, what we got in Scotland, not once but quite long intervals.
Considering that every single site about the quails recomends over +16C for the quails wellbeing, i hope this experiment will convince lot of bird lovers to engage in such a nice preocupation like growing quails.

more about quails here:
http://www.squidoo.com/quail-remedy-healthy-eating
http://www.squidoo.com/quail-hobby-income-remedy
http://www.squidoo.com/quail-education-hobby

I did move in beautiful Scotland after an unhappy event, i mean after i married Alex, a quite charming pensioner, picked up from a dating site. Actually he did pick me up, and at my age (60) i did find exiting to fall in love. Well, i can not complain, the years was not noring what we spent together. First he did amaze me with his closed-mind nature, a born sens of humor, and this mixture seemed to me charming. Obviously i hoped to change what is bad in good.
On the other hand, i came with my stubborn nature, convinced that i will make my not very genius husband to develop exactly as i want.
I guess, i even do not have to highlight that i did not succeed at all.  Actually he did what he wanted with me.
Especially in the first year, when i did not have a bancaccount, i could not have my romanian pension , sometimes i just wanted to go home but i had no money. I felt panicked, i did not know what to expect after he yielled at me, started to hit me...
However, when i wanted very much to go home, eventually he did let me. At first i did not realise the connection but later i saw that anytime he spend a lot of time on the computer, he will let me go.
Now how stupid i have to be not to notice the connection? Thank Google, in a short time i found a soft, which did show me exactly what is doing my husband when starring at the computer, while i am in the kitchen or where ever. He was in love, repeteadly, mostly with ladies from Ukraina, Bulgaria or Russia...o, and China. He did invite them, telling that he is widow...So when i left to go home, for a week or two, for my pension problems or whatever, he had guests...